Novody said you had tobe nice!

Scott Valenti

7/8/20252 min read

๐‘ต๐’๐’ƒ๐’๐’…๐’š ๐’”๐’‚๐’Š๐’… ๐’š๐’‚ ๐’‰๐’‚๐’… ๐’•๐’ ๐’ƒ๐’† ๐’๐’Š๐’„๐’†!

Life can feel like youโ€™re staring at a brick wallโ€”an imposing barrier built from personal struggles, endless responsibilities, or self-doubt. That wall looks different for everyone, but its effect is the same: it traps you, holding you back from the life or career you deserve. Today, Iโ€™m here to remind you that those bricksโ€”your excuses, fears, or circumstancesโ€”donโ€™t define you. You have an advantage, a unique strength waiting to be unleashed, and itโ€™s time to get mad, get moving, and break through.

our brick wall might be a job that pays the bills but leaves no room for growth or fulfillment. You clock in, clock out, and feel stuck, with zero breathing room to pursue your passions. Or perhaps itโ€™s timeโ€”or the lack of it. Between a 9-to-5 grind, school, kids, doctorโ€™s appointments, chauffeuring, and meal planning, thereโ€™s no space to make a move toward something better. Maybe you feel outmatched, with outdated skills, an irrelevant degree, or no degree at all. Perhaps youโ€™ve stayed in one place too long, and the world seems to have moved on without you. These challenges stack up, brick by brick, forming a wall that feels insurmountable.

Hereโ€™s the harsh truth: those excuses donโ€™t care about you. They wonโ€™t create work-life balance, land you a fulfilling career, or pay your bills. They just sit there, heavy and unyielding, keeping you trapped in a cycle of โ€œjust getting by.โ€ But you donโ€™t have to accept that. You can choose to stop existing and start living. Get mad if you need toโ€”scream in your car, confront your doubts, and demand more from yourself. You deserve a life that excites you, a career that fulfills you, and the freedom to thrive.The game-changer? You have an advantageโ€”something unique that sets you apart from everyone else chasing the same goals. It might be your resilience, your life experience, or a skill youโ€™ve overlooked. Maybe itโ€™s your ability to connect with people, your creativity, or your grit from years of overcoming challenges. Identifying that advantage is the spark that can ignite your breakthrough. My passion as a career coach is helping people uncover this hidden edge, turning their potential into action

.So, how do you start dismantling that wall? First, take one small step. Update your resume to highlight your strengths, even if itโ€™s just one section. Enroll in a short online course on platforms like LinkedIn Learning to refresh your skills. Reach out to a mentor or network contact for a quick chatโ€”it could open unexpected doors. Set a single, achievable goal, like attending a webinar or researching one company that aligns with your aspirations. These actions chip away at the wall, creating cracks where light can shine through.Donโ€™t go it alone. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Connect with a career or life coach who can guide you in identifying your advantage and building a plan. If youโ€™re feeling stuck, reach outโ€”Iโ€™m here to help, or Iโ€™ll connect you with someone who can.

Those bricks may feel heavy, but theyโ€™re not permanent. With determination, a clear plan, and the right support, you can break through to the life you deserve. Stop existing. Start thriving. Youโ€™ve got this.

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