That darn calendar!

Scott Valenti

7/5/20251 min read

๐“๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐๐š๐ซ๐ง ๐œ๐š๐ฅ๐ž๐ง๐๐š๐ซ... ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐œ๐ฅ๐จ๐œ๐ค... ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฆ๐ž๐ญ๐š๐ฉ๐ก๐จ๐ซ๐ข๐œ๐š๐ฅ ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ ๐ฅ๐š๐ฌ๐ฌ...

Yeah, those are the "๐’”๐’Š๐’๐’†๐’๐’• ๐’‘๐’‚๐’“๐’•๐’๐’†๐’“๐’”" in any career transition.

Many years ago, I KNEW I wanted out... I accomplished all I came to accomplish and frankly they couldn't afford to keep me, and I definitely wanted a new challenge.

So, I set out to get what I was worth and to use the skills I had acquired!

๐„๐ง๐ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ซ๐ฒ... ๐‘๐ˆ๐†๐‡๐“?!?!?

Wrong.

I did what I had always done, and I continued to get what I always got.

The job market had changed since the last time I was "out there" looking.

The means by which to finds new jobs had DRASTICALLY changed!

And let's be honest... I wasn't getting any younger and maybe I got a bit too comfortable in that job I had for 6 years and failed to continually upskill...

I won't bore you with what I did... my story... your story... Joe Schmoe's story won't get YOU where YOU need to be.

Sometimes the first step is answering one or more of these questions:

๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐œ๐ก ๐ฅ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ž๐ซ am I willing to settle for the salary I'm making?
๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐œ๐ก ๐ฅ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ž๐ซ am I willing to play second fiddle?
๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐œ๐ก ๐ฅ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ž๐ซ am I willing to NOT have the impact I know I should?
๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐œ๐ก ๐ฅ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ž๐ซ am I willing to not USE my degree / certs?
๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐œ๐ก ๐ฅ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ž๐ซ am I willing to not have work/live balance?
๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐œ๐ก ๐ฅ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ž๐ซ am I willing to put my career on hold?

Oh, and one last multiple-choice question... Am I willing to do EVERYTHING in my power to get what I want? Yes๐Ÿ”ฒ No๐Ÿ”ฒ

I LOVE self-assessments friends. It gives me clarity... it gives me empowerment... it gives me focus... and it gives me a ๐‘ฏ๐‘ผ๐‘ฎ๐‘ฌ ๐‘จ๐‘ซ๐‘ฝ๐‘จ๐‘ต๐‘ป๐‘จ๐‘ฎ๐‘ฌ!

These are questions I ask of myself. Yours might be totally different. But ask yourself some questions and give honest answers...

Do it TODAY... And see what happens ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ

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